I CAME THROUGH AS PURE GOLD

I chose to write about differences that can occur in marriage. When one partner wants to serve God and the other partner does not. I want the reader to realize how complex this can be and the hidden truths which might be revealed and how new perspectives hoped for in this type of relationship. It is about gaining awareness in your situation and gaining a deeper spiritual insight. It’s about deep perception, discernment seeing into the core of things not just the surface of things. It’s about the realization that can appear leading to a solution or to a new understanding or a new way of thinking. It’s about understanding discernment and relying on its intuition. It’s about understanding one’s own mental state, their behavior, and the behavior of their mate. It’s about understanding we do not have enough wisdom, insight, discernment, or understanding of God to go through our situation without having God’s Spirit. It’s about realizing that some things happen to reveal to us that we do not have the understanding to endure, go through, or come out of the situation. We reach a point where we realize the way we think in our situation may not be the thoughts that are needed to bring us through our situation, or give us understanding, awareness, discernment, judgment or wisdom. Discernment involves using experience to distinguish truth from falsehood or to evaluate a situation. Discernment is a conscious analytical process involving reflection, and emotional intelligence, it is a developed skill that evaluates the “why” behind an intuition helping the truth in a situation. Spiritual discernment in marriage helps couples align their relationship with divine purpose, fostering deeper love, emotional healing, and unity by distinguishing God’s will from selfish desires. It aids in navigating a partner’s true character and fostering mutual growth in holiness. Discernment helps focus on spiritual rather than just physical or emotional compatibility. Couples grow together in purpose, love, and faith. Discernment helps navigate conflict with grace. It helps partners see difference as opportunities for growth. Discernment helps in seeing beyond outward appearances to understand a partner’s true character, integrity, and sincerity. We must also understand how emotions affect us when we are in God. Emotions are recognized as complex God given gifts rather than just feelings to be ignored allowing them to be transformed, and used for spiritual growth, healing and connection to God. Emotions act as indicators guiding us to see our need for God with help from the Holy Spirit guiding us toward peace, joy while helping to manage and redirect difficult emotions. Emotions reveal our need for God and help us relate to him allowing us to bring both pleasant and unpleasant feelings to him in prayer. Emotions can guide us to rely more on Gods strength rather than our own. Emotions are meant to be brought under the authority of scripture and Gods character. This book was written to deliver, encourage, motivate, and inspire. No matter what you are going through as a Christian God will always do exceedingly and abundantly above what we think or ask. If you trust him.