Releasing The Incredible You

You were never meant to live hidden, playing small, or questioning your worth. But somewhere along the way—between expectations, disappointments, and the noise of the world—you forgot. You forgot that God made you incredible. This book was born from that very tension. I know what it’s like to wear masks to fit in, to second-guess your calling, to wonder if you're too much or not enough. I’ve been there. And I’ve come to tell you: the version of you that the world needs is the one you’ve been too afraid to reveal. There’s a moment that changes everything—when you stop asking for permission and start living with intention. That moment comes when you confront the enemies of your purpose. I’m not talking about people, not really. I’m talking about the subtle, persistent voices that say you can’t, that you shouldn’t, that you’ll fail. The voices that echo through generational trauma, cultural limitations, broken relationships, and internal wounds. I call these the enemies of your destiny. But you don’t have to stay stuck. The power to break free is already within you. In these pages, I’ll walk you through how to release it. An Unexpected Wake-Up Call Releasing the incredible you is like answering a phone call in the middle of the night. It startles you. It disrupts your comfort. But as the voice on the other end speaks, something inside you awakens. At first, you resist—who is calling at this hour? Why now? But as you listen, the truth begins to settle deep in your spirit: This call is for you. And it has always been for you. God has been calling your name. Not to condemn you—but to remind you. You were made with intention. You were formed with a purpose. The obstacles in your life weren’t placed there to defeat you; they were placed there so you could grow through them. That call doesn’t just ask you to wake up. It asks you to rise up. What’s Holding You Back? Maybe for you, it’s: • The opinions of others — You’ve learned to play a role that makes others comfortable, even if it stifles your own growth. You’ve let someone else’s voice override your own. • Your past mistakes — Shame has convinced you that you’re disqualified. But God’s mercy doesn’t run out just because you’ve made a few wrong turns. • Cultural or family expectations — Sometimes, the hardest resistance comes from the people closest to us. They mean well, but they don’t always understand the calling on your life. • Fear of failure — What if you try and fall flat on your face? What if people see you fail? And yet, I would ask: What if you succeed? What if you rise? What if, by simply showing up as your whole self, you unlock healing—not just for you, but for everyone connected to you Confronting the Enemies Each chapter in this book takes aim at a different enemy: from the whispers of comparison to the weight of generational doubt. You’ll meet Eve—yes, the Eve of Eden—in a fresh light as she speaks from the garden about identity and deception. You’ll walk through stories—some biblical, some personal—that show what happens when people decide to stop hiding and start living boldly. You’ll discover: • The danger of allowing others to define your worth. • How ethnicity and nationality can be used as walls or as bridges—and how to choose the latter. • Why ignorance is not bliss, but bondage. • The subtle damage of low self-esteem—and how to rebuild from the inside out. I won’t sugarcoat it. Some of these chapters will be hard to read, not because they’re complicated, but because they hold up a mirror. But if you can look in that mirror and keep going, transformation will meet you on the other side. The Role of Faith This is not just a self-help book. This is a faith-fueled blueprint for growth. Without faith, it’s easy to believe that change is out of reach. But with faith, even the smallest steps become sacred. I believe Scripture isn’t just a record of the past—it’s a roadmap for the present. That’s why, throughout this book, I’ve embedded biblical truth not as lectures, but as lightposts. You may not see every verse right away, but you’ll feel its wisdom woven into the stories. You’ll find yourself in the middle of a narrative that God started long before you were born—and the incredible part is, He wrote it with you in mind. You Were Always the One Maybe no one ever told you, but you were always the one. The one chosen for a divine assignment. The one with the voice that could change atmospheres. The one whose presence was never meant to blend in but to stand out. You may not feel incredible right now. You may feel bruised, exhausted, or even invisible. But trust me: seeds grow in the dark. And just because you haven’t bloomed yet doesn’t mean your time isn’t coming. This book is about rediscovering your identity, your true identity. Not the one you crafted for survival, but the one God breathed into existence. And as you uncover that, you’ll begin to walk differently, speak differently, and lead differently. Your Time Is Now There’s a world waiting for the real you to show up. A world that doesn’t need a copy of someone else, but the original masterpiece that is you. Releasing the incredible you isn’t a one-time act—it’s a journey. A decision you make every day to align with purpose instead of fear, with truth instead of lies. As you read, I hope you’ll pause often. Reflect. Pray. Cry if you need to. But don’t stop. Keep going. Because I believe by the final chapter, you won’t just know who you are, you’ll be ready to live it out loud. The incredible you is waiting to be released.