Knocking the Wrong Door

Opening Doors For New Opportunities

There's no harm in a woman opening doors for new opportunities and start dating Sometimes we wonder if situations are trying to tell us something or whether we supposed to be living somewhere else. Opening door is the best way to learn about yourself, and other people. It's a great way to share your faith and what you believe. If you choose to date, you need to be sure that the men you date understand what you mean by the word. There are so many people who are dissatisfied with their own life or situation to the extent of not trusting anyone who knocks on their door. Some are planning to sell all their belongings and move to other countries to start afresh. Some times to move to places they have never been before just like Abraham.

“The LORD said to Abram, "Leave your land, your relatives, and your father's home. Go to the land that I will show you.” Gen 12:1

Jesus Christ is the answer to every questions and He is waiting to give you a better life. Every door that you open make sure you invite Him first. Never dwell or stay in place for a long time and hoping things will come at your door step. Some people were never meant to stay in one place or one relationship because the people we meet they come in different shapes, attitude, believes and you are the only decision maker. Never allow anyone to choose your path or partner. You need to grow and use your skills or experience to contribute back to people around you or wherever you are.

Some of the biggest challenges in this world is wasting time figuring out where to focus our effort in relationships. Some waste time on opportunities they aren’t really all that interest them. Some doors may look beautiful outside but you will never know the inside if you decide to just wonder outside hoping someone will see through the door that you are outside. Just knock and the rest Remember you are not the only one and you will never be alone. Many people are tired and tired of being tired. Never try to knock on several doors at the same time. Remember when you knock the door will open for you.

A woman will respect any man greatly if they lead the relationship. God called men to be family leaders. Live up to it! Don't make a woman guess as to whether or not you are truly involved with each other. Talk to her and find out where she feels the two of you are headed. If that's the road you wish to travel. Make those distinctions clear, so that there is no question.

Tells husbands that they should treat their wives with respect as the weaker partner.

1 Peter 3:7

We must constantly check how we are treated by our partners If he isn't kind, gentle, and fair; would you want to live the rest of your life in subjection to him? Remember that a dating relationship is the opportunity you have to decide if you will spend the rest of your life with that person. Once you are married, you have made your decision.

Some women however, seem to receive more than their share of problems and heartaches because we jump to fall in love before asking God if the one you opened your heart is the right partner for you. What can the Christian woman do to get through these hard times or unforeseen, Our Father care about us no matter how badly we get hurt and He can allow shocking things to occur to those He chose to end up taking steps to their destiny.

As women we are discouraged by those people around us especially those women who opened doors for strangers knocking on their doors looking for love. Failing several times in your relationship does not mean God is not with you. It is always wise to get a partner in places where you all sing the same song, worship the same God. Love God more than your partner and invite Him in every decision you make in your family life.