The Forgiving Soul

Where is our sense of civility? “Civility is the recognition that all people have dignity that’s inherent to their person, no matter their religion, race, gender, sexuality, or ability” states, Opal Tometi. There is a gross lack of civility, politeness and forgiveness in the world. Anxiety, prejudice, hatred, anger, violence, jealousy, fear, competitiveness, greed, hostility, and distrust lurks in the soul, poisons the tongue and corrupts our ability to communicate. Consequently, we do not treat each other with civility and kindness. We are disrespectful, mean, rude and even hostile to each other.
America has become more divided racially, socially, economically, culturally and spiritually. There is growing hostility toward African Americans, Muslims, Jews and other minorities. We are killing one another. We have segregated ourselves and do not appreciate our cultural and religious differences. Moreover, there is an increase in the gap between the rich and poor; the haves and the have nots.
We have witnessed a decline in civility and bipartisanship, and a rapid increase in hostility between those who have different opinions. Republicans and Democrats no longer debate and dialogue about the issues. Attack politics and dogma has replaced thoughtful discussion between parties of differing views. Our political polarization is a disservice to the American people and corrosive to our souls.
Unfortunately, the Church has lost its moral compass and there are far too many Christians filled with racial prejudice, cultural intolerance, sectarianism and social indifference. Like the Church of Laodicea, we have become “Lukewarm” in our commitment to Christ, peace and justice for our neighbor.
Where do we go from here? Bishop T.D. Jakes admonishes us, “It is important that we rebuild an atmosphere of forgiveness and civility in ever aspect of our lives.” The Church should be the primary institution that instructs people on love, forgiveness, reconciliation, unity and civility. We are called to impact Americas socio-cultural milieu with gospel of Jesus Christ and the values of charity, civility, morality, compassion, mercy and forgiveness.