Blindsided

Jospeh was not taken by Potiphar's wife's eyes; he wasn't taken by her eyelids. He fled from her seductive plan (many men run to it) ------- which would have destroyed his life in terms of the blessing and favor that God had given to him from Potiphar. The realization when you abstain or I should say flee fornication/adultery you protect your life from being analyzed for any other trustworthy attributes which would detract many instead of attract many who would generally admire your sincere craftsmanship of honesty, integrity and discipline.

We take lightly men cheating and expecting the same position of honor, the bible says give honor to whom honor is due, which means esteem to the highest degree. The backlash of adultery is dishonor and demonstrates a picture of betrayal and deception which is a question of character not, oops I made a mistake, let me just side line for a moment, it takes careful planning and decisiveness to cheat or commit adultery, of course God forgives you when you repent and change from this, but initially it is not pleasant ot watch the decay that happens to all individuals involved, the building up again takes tremendous work.