Dear God, I Want To Get Married

Many Christian singles are waiting for God to fulfill His promise of a Godly mate with whom they can share the rest of their lives. Perhaps this is you, and you have been waiting for months or even years only to find that your anticipation has turned into disappointmeent, sadness or self-pity. You are not alone. The desire to be married is shared by many singles in all walks of life. Regardless of one's culture, religion or environmental background, most singles have a desire to be involved in a meaningful relationship that leads to marriage. Since waiting can be very challenging for those who are sincerely seeking a Godly mate, it is most helpful to have a true understandding of God's perfect timing, which can only be aquired through foundational Bibllical teaching as it relates to waiting on God. This is important because the courage and confidence that you will have in your future relationship will come from the preparation you haave made while believing God and trusting His timing.

Having faith in God for your future is not easy. It is a work in progress. There will be times when you will have to "stand in the rain," meaning you might lose friendships along the way. Friends may not understand why you refuse to date someone that they have introduced to you as a "good catch." They might resent your refusal to join them in activities that you once enjoyed together as friends. Even parenets may become frustrated at your lack of interest in someone hat they feel would be the right husband/wife for you, especially if they are eagerly waiting for grandchildren. Even though you might feel that you are "standing in the rain," remember that God is standing with you. You can survive and thrive in any circumstance knowing that He has not forgotten you and that He is never late in fulfilling His promises.